Hollay Ghadery’s talent is authentic, which allows her to excel as an author within a multitude of writing genres, many of which focus on troubled relationships —with herself and with others.
Within each medium @hollayghadery is open and vulnerable, while at the same time offering —if not the middle finger — at the very least a similiar digit to those who might judge her raw honesty. It’s impossible not to love that kind of quirkiness, that outsized moxie.
In The Unravelling of Ou, Ghadery once again writes to the heart of the matter, which in this case involves the generational conflict between an Iranian mother, who uses tragedy as currency, and her “shamed” daughter Minoo, who is a disappointment to her mother not because she is who she is, but because of who her mother thinks she is.
The generational divide expands to Minoo’s stressed-to-the-max relationship with her daughter Roya, who is embarrassed by the fact that Ecology Paul, a sock puppet crafted from felt, wool, and wire, is a constant fixture on her mother’s hand. What Roya doesn’t understand is that Minoo uses the puppet not as a way out of how she feels, but rather because she doesn’t know how to stay engaged in life.
“I was here because Minoo was too scared to be,” Ecology Paul opines.
The Unravelling of Ou, which is narrated in the voice of Ecology Paul, who Minoo treats as her confidant, her keeper of secrets, and the sharer of her disappointments, immerses readers deep into the traditional, old world thinking of Minoo’s Iranian mother, a world that Ghadery is well familiar with as detailed in her award-winning memoir, FUSE.
Shame — at signs that indicate a girl is growing into womanhood— shame and feeling less than because you aren’t going to be enough —are not just threads in Minoo’s life but declarations, real life commentary on how her mother viewed not just her, but her sisters as well.
“All of you are whores,” Minoo’s mom used to whisper to her.
After becoming pregnant at a very young age and having a son, Davood, who is ripped away from her breast by her mother, Minoo is exiled to Canada to live with her father’s cousin, Cala, who is loving, progressive and supportive.
Against all odds, Minoo meets Atanas, a kind man who adores Minoo and is seemingly open and accepting of Ecology Paul and the other twenty-one puppets stashed in Minoo’s closet, a collection Roya calls an infestation.
In between the angst, fear and trauma, are sprinkles of wit and humour, which Ghadery intersperses at just the right moments.
“I swear, if my eyes weren’t sewn to my face, I would have rolled them,” Ecology Paul says.
The unravelling begins when Roya, who is having a baby, gives her mom an ultimatum — get rid of the puppet or sever their relationship.
Recovery is a part of Ghadery’s real life narrative as is her dedication to family, which are connective tools that make readers commit to her immersive storytelling. It is this openness that allows readers to feel okay about their addictions, their foibles and character defects, so that they can feel better about their imperfect humanness.
And so, the completeness and hope with which The Unravelling of Ou ends, brings a sense of gratitude and acknowledgement for what is possible when we allow ourselves to detach and unravel the what is.
“They can’t see how carrying lightness is the ultimate act of resistance. That silliness. Foolishness. Fiddle-faddle, even. It’s a spark of revolution in the darkness. Every titter of it.”
A must-read poignat, engaging, and thought provoking read, The Unravelling of Ou comes out February 15. From @palimpsestpressbooks
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